Dear Prospective Surrogate,

 

Thank you for your interest in the Surrogate Parenting Center of Texas, Inc. It takes a very special person to consider such a generous gesture.  Women with such kind hearts make this dream a reality for infertile couples.

 

We require rigorous screening of all surrogates.  You will be asked to undergo a psychological evaluation and, if selected, extensive counseling throughout the gestational surrogacy arrangement.  This is a very big commitment and sacrifice on your part and we want to make sure you are adequately prepared for what may be ahead!

 

We do NOT provide traditional surrogacy arrangements for our couples in which the surrogate uses her own egg.  Our couples are required to use either the wife’s eggs or donor eggs.  The surrogate is NEVER biologically related to the baby she carries for another couple.                                    

 

Surrogates are compensated for their time, inconvenience, discomfort and services on a monthly basis.  The payments are disbursed over a ten-month period (nine months of pregnancy and one month following delivery).  Surrogates are also reimbursed travel and other related expenses.

 

Please look over the enclosed information, Print and fill out the application and call to schedule an initial visit.  Feel free to contact us by phone at the above listed number or by e-mail at caplanspct@aol.com.

 

Kindest Regards,

 

 

 

Merritt Morrison Turner, SWA                        Sheryl Mink Caplan, Ph.D.

Director                                                           Licensed Psychologist

 

 

 

 


 

 

Confidential Surrogate Mother Application

 

 

Date of application:  ____/____/____                    Application Number:_______________

                                                                                                (for SPCT use only)

 

Last Name:  _________________________  First Name:________________________ 

Middle Initial: ___

 

Maiden Name:  _____________________________   Age:  ________ 

Date of Birth:  _____/_____/_____

 

Spouse’s Name:  __________________________________His Age: _____

Date of Birth ____/____/____

 

Present

Address:  _______________________________________________________________________

                                Street/Apartment number                                         City                          State                         Zip                                          

How Long at Current Address?:_____ If less than one year, please list previous address:

 

_________________________________________________________________________________

 Street/Apartment number                                                        City                          State                         Zip                                 

 

Phone:      Home (______) ______-________                                 Work (______) ______-________

 

                Pager  (______) ______-________                               Cellular (______) ______-________

e-mail address:  ____________________________

 

Marital Status:  Single ž   Married ž   Separated ž   Divorced ž   Widowed ž

 

U.S. Citizen:   Yes ž   No ž                                                        Social Security Number:  ______-____-________

 

Driver’s License Number:  _____________________________          State:  ________________________

 

Occupation:  ___________________________________________________________________________

 

Employer:  ____________________________________________________________________________

 

Employer’s Address:  ____________________________________________________________________

 How long with current employer?:____ If less than one year, provide previous employer information below.

 

Previous Employer:______________________Employer’sAddress:________________________________

                                         

Spouse’s Occupation:  ___________________________________________________________________

 

Spouse’s Employer:  _____________________________________________________________________

 

 

In case of emergency please contact:      ________________________________________

                                                                                (Name and relation to surrogate)

                                                         

 ________________________________________

 (Phone Number)

Dates of all marriages:____________________________________________________________________

 

Dates of all divorces:_____________________________________________________________________

 

City, County and State of all Marriages:_______________________________________________________

 

 

Medical Insurance:  Yes ž   No ž

 

Insurance Company:  ______________________________________  Policy Number:  ________________

 

Physician:  ____________________________________________________________________________

 

Physician Address:    _____________________________________________________________

 

                           

How did you hear about Surrogate Parenting Center of Texas, Inc.?  ________________________

 

 

Physical/Personal Data: 

 

Age :  __________        Height:  _______         Weight:  ________        Eye color:  _______ 

 

Hair Color:  __________________                 

 

 

 

Race:  _____________________________  Religious Affiliation: __________________________

 

 

Have you ever been convicted of a felony?  Yes ž   No ž  

 

If yes, please explain:  ____________________________________________________________

 

Have you ever declared bankruptcy? ________

 

If yes, please explain: ___________________________________________________________

 

Educational History (Please check all that apply): 

 

ž       Completed Grade School

ž       Completed High School

ž       Currently in College Pursuing Degree in: __________________________________________

 

Name of College/University:_______________________________________________________

ž       Completed College Degree in:  __________________________________________________

ž       Currently Pursuing Advanced Degree in:  __________________________________________

Name of College/University:_______________________________________________________

ž    Completed Advanced Degree in:  ________________________________________________

Fertility History:

 

Number of Pregnancies:  _______   Dates of Pregnancies:  _________________________

 

Number of Miscarriages:  _______  Dates of Miscarriages:  _________________________

 

Number of Abortions:      _______  Dates of Abortions:      _________________________

 

Number of Stillbirths:      _______  Dates of Stillbirths:       _________________________

 

Number of Children:  _________

 

Names                          Birth Date                      Sex of Child                 Health/ Problems 

 

______________________________________________________________________________

 

______________________________________________________________________________

 

______________________________________________________________________________

 

Did you have any pregnancy or delivery complications? Yes  No     Please explain:____________

 

______________________________________________________________________________

What date did your last period begin?  ____/____/____  and end?  ____/____/____

 

Are your menstrual periods regular? Yes ž  No ž    How long is your monthly cycle? ______

 

How many days does your period usually last?  ___________________________________

 

How old were you when you started your period?  ________________________________

 

Have you been an egg donor or a surrogate before?  Egg donor:  Yes ž   No ž

                                                                                 Surrogate:    Yes ž   No ž

 

Have you ever been told you were infertile?  Yes ž   No ž  

 

If yes, please explain:  ______________________________________________________

 

________________________________________________________________________

 

What form of birth control are you currently using?  _______________________________

 

Is there any history of fertility problems in your family?    Yes ž   No ž

 

If yes, please explain:  ______________________________________________________

 

________________________________________________________________________

 

 

 

 

Did it take more than six months to conceive your children? Yes     No

 

Did your mother take diethylstilbestrol (DES) or any prescription drug while she was pregnant with you or any of your siblings?   Yes ž   No ž

 

If yes, please explain:  ______________________________________________________

 

________________________________________________________________________

 

Personal Health History:

 

Do you smoke cigarettes?   Yes ž   No ž    If yes, how many a week?  _________________

 

Does anyone in your household smoke cigarettes?  Yes    No

 

Do you drink alcohol: Yes ž   Nož   If yes, how much do you drink?  _________________

 

Are you using marijuana now?   Yes ž   No ž   If yes, how often?   ___________________

 

Have you ever used illegal or harmful drugs not prescribed to you?  Yes ž   No ž

 

If yes, please explain:  ______________________________________________________

 

________________________________________________________________________

 

Have you ever had an eating disorder?  Yes ž   No ž   If yes, please explain:  ____________

 

Do you have a fear of injections?   Yes    No

 

Have you ever had therapy with a psychiatrist, other mental health professional or clergy member? 

 

Yes ž   No ž   If yes, when and why:  __________________________________________

 

________________________________________________________________________

 

Have you ever been prescribed psychiatric medication?    Yes   No   If yes, when and why:

 

_________________________________________________________________________

 

Have you ever been hospitalized for a psychiatric related issue?  Yes ž   No ž

 

If yes, please explain:  ______________________________________________________

 

________________________________________________________________________

 

 Do you currently have any allergies?  Yes ž   No ž   If yes, please explain:  _____________

 

________________________________________________________________________

 

 

 

What is your blood type?  ___________________________________________________

 

Your diet is:  Vegetarian ž   Non-vegetarian ž

 

How would you describe your diet?  Poor ž   Average ž   Excellent ž  

 

How much do you exercise?   None ž   Occasionally ž   Regularly ž   Athlete ž

 

What type of exercise do you participate in?  ___________________________________________

 

Have you ever had surgery?  Yes ž   No ž   If yes, please explain:  ____________________

 

________________________________________________________________________

 

Have you ever had any hospitalizations not already mentioned?  Yes ž   No ž  If yes, please explain:  _________________________________________________________________

 

Have you ever had a sexually transmitted disease?  Yes ž   No ž  If yes, please explain:  ___

 

_______________________________________________________________________

 

_______________________________________________________________________

 

_______________________________________________________________________

 

Have you ever had any major illness not already discussed on this application?  Yes ž  No ž

 

If yes, please explain:  ______________________________________________________

 

________________________________________________________________________

 

Do you have any chronic medical problems or conditions?  Yes ž   No ž  If yes, please explain:  _________________________________________________________________

 

________________________________________________________________________

 

 

Do you have any brothers or sisters who died in infancy or early childhood?  Yes ž   No ž

 

If yes, please explain:  ______________________________________________________

 

________________________________________________________________________

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Personal and Motivational:  Remember to use more paper if necessary!

 

In your own words describe your personality and character:  ________________________

 

________________________________________________________________________

 

________________________________________________________________________

 

________________________________________________________________________

 

What are your talents,  ___________________________________________

Hobbies, and____________________________    Interests?   ___________________________________________

 

 

 

If you could pass on a message to the child you will deliver for a couple what would it be? 

 

________________________________________________________________________

 

________________________________________________________________________

 

________________________________________________________________________

 

 

Why do you want to be an surrogate?  _________________________________________

 

________________________________________________________________________

 

________________________________________________________________________

 

________________________________________________________________________

 

Do you foresee any possible emotional reactions or problems you might have during the surrogacy process?  ________________________________________________________________

________________________________________________________________________

 

________________________________________________________________________

 

Have you discussed surrogacy with anyone in your family? Do they approve? __________________

 

______________________________________________________________________________

 

______________________________________________________________________________

 

Who would you have to provide emotional support during the surrogacy process and would they be willing to fill that role?  ___________________________________________________________

 

_____________________________________________________________________________

 

Tell us how your husband or partner feels about your decision to become a surrogate mother:_____

 

_____________________________________________________________________________

 

_____________________________________________________________________________

 

What level of contact do you desire to have with the couple during the pregnancy?_____________

 

_____________________________________________________________________________

 

What level of contact do you desire to have with the couple and/or resulting children after delivery?

 

_____________________________________________________________________________

 

_____________________________________________________________________________

 

Tell us about the couple you would like to be a surrogate for:______________________________

 

_____________________________________________________________________________

 

_____________________________________________________________________________

 

We will require some counseling for you during the surrogacy process.  How do you feel about this?

 

_____________________________________________________________________________

 

_____________________________________________________________________________

 

What do you plan to tell your children about what you are doing?___________________________

 

______________________________________________________________________________

 

______________________________________________________________________________

 

How do you feel about carrying twins or triplets?________________________________________

 

______________________________________________________________________________

 

 

How do you feel about selective reduction to twins if pregnancy results in more than two fetus?____

 

______________________________________________________________________________

 

 

How do you feel about aborting the pregnancy if it is discovered that there is something seriously

 

wrong with the fetus? ____________________________________________________________

 

_____________________________________________________________________________

 

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I verify that the statements made and information provided in this application are true, correct, and complete.  This application is executed under penalty of perjury under of the laws of the State of Texas.  My signature authorizes SPCT to run a background check verifying the accuracy of this information.

 

 

 

 

_____________________________                   ____/____/____

Signature                                                   Date

 

 

 

Include a picture of yourself and children.

Also include a copy of your drivers license.